Signs of infidelity
Is your spouse or significant other cheating online? The internet has become a dangerous place, even for spouses and couples. Online Chat is the #1 cause for cyber infidelity along with many other methods of Communication! Our spy software gives you the tools you need to eliminate doubt and worry over whether your spouse or significant other commiting online infidelity. For more information be sure to also check out Signs of a cheating husband and Signs of a cheating wife.
Spouse Monitoring - Statistics and Solutions
- 57% of people have used the Internet to flirt.
- 38% of people have engaged in explicit online sexual conversation and 50% of people have made phone contact with someone they chatted with online.
- Evidence proves there is a high correlation between on-line infidelity and subsequent real-time sexual affairs.
- Evidence supports the existence of disinhibition, accelerated intimacy, and hyper-sexual online behavior that can easily lead to real-time infidelity
- 31% of people have had an online conversation that has led to real-time sex.
Relationships are constantly being tested and destroyed by sexual affairs that start from online conversations. If you have high suspicions of an Internet affair, finding out the truth before more action is taken is extremely important. We provide the software to allow you to do that.
Don't Let Cyber Infidelity Ruin Your Relationship!
I'm sure all of us who have been in relationships wonder what our significant other is doing when they are on-line. There is a distinct difference between that random thought that may enter your jealous mind, and a real reason to be thinking about what your loved one is doing or who they are chatting with on-line. If you ever have wanted to know if your loved one was guilty of infidelity, but don't know how to go about finding out without asking them, then these few tips may help you out.
Lying is always an indicator of something gone wrong in a relationship and is often a sign of infidelity. If your loved one begins to tell you they are "just surfing the Internet," and they do it in privacy, you may have something to worry about. You must ask yourself how many times this has been happening, There is a fine line before having friends of the opposite sex on the Internet and constantly being with them on-line. If he/she has nothing to hide, then he/she shouldn't be lying to you in the first place, and you shouldn't turn into the questioning and jealous loved one until the excuses begin occurring much more frequently.
You should also look for signs to see if your loved one seems to be drifting away from you as well. Try to pay more attention to the inner workings of your relationship. See if husband/wife still spends quality time with you willingly, or if he/she avoids speaking with you about anything besides superficial topics. If they are not paying as much attention to you, and you know they do not have a significant reason to want to be alone or more aloof, then this may also be a sign of infidelity. Are they simply avoiding you, or avoiding their friends as well? Usually if a person is cheating on their loved one, they continue to keep contact with their friends much more than the loved one. Sometimes, the best way to tell if they are cheating on you is through the little things.
No matter what happens, always make sure to talk to your loved one before making any rash decisions. Sometimes you may think you have the best clues and you could be completely wrong, so confront them and ask them what's going on and why you are worried without accusing them. You still want to give them a chance to defend themselves so you can then decide if they are telling the truth, lying once again or if they come clean with the cyber affair. So whatever you decide, discuss your thoughts and feelings with your significant other before breaking off that relationship because of the cyber affair.
Experts say that a gut instinct is one of the most powerful signs of infidelity. Statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct. 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. The first clue is seldom obvious. Typically, it's a "feeling" that something is different. You notice minor changes in your lover's behavior. Even the most skilled cheater can't hide these clues and only a lover in total denial can miss them. The first sign of infidelity can be a comment or incident that seems harmless but remains in your mind. The following is a short list of infidelity signs:
- Your spouse spends an excessive amount of time in the on-line chat rooms.
- Your spouse pays less attention to you.
- Your spouse is preoccupied with on-line chatting, more distant emotionally
- Your spouse is insisting on chatting alone.
- Your spouse has unaccounted time away from home.
- Your spouse has a decreased interest in sex.
- Your spouse becomes defensive during normal conversations
- Discovery of a post office box.
- The toilet bowl seat is up, (men) and when you left home it was down.
- The passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position.
- An unusual number of hang ups or wrong number calls.
- Fragrances of colognes and/or perfumes are noticed on clothing of a cheating spouse.
- Automobile mileage is unusual for claims made by cheating spouse.
- Your spouse explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out of town on business, but yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten mile driven.
- Discover the recent opening of another checking account.
- Unaccounted for hairs of a different color on clothing.
- Cigarette smoke on clothing that can not be explained.
- Credit card transactions for unknown or unusual types of purchases.
- Cosmetic, perfume or lipstick purchases listed but not received.
- An increase in toll and/or long distance calls.
- Increase in ATM withdrawals. Check the transaction record to ID the withdrawal.
- Income tax returns revealing unexplained travel and business expense deductions.
- Florist or jewelry bills.
- Credit card gas purchases that are inconsistent for the amount of miles driven on the car.
- Joins a health gym or weight reducing clinic.
- Visits made to the tanning salon.
- New hair style.
- Wearing hair spray, colognes & perfumes more often.
- Needs a pager, cellular phone.
- Excessive buying of new and different clothes.
- Sudden and unexplained change in clothing style.
- The buying of sexy underwear or lingerie.
- There is an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship.
If you KNOW FOR A FACT your spouse is cheating but just need more proof, then let our SpyBuddy Key Logger software help you catch them in the act!
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